Wednesday, 23 October 2013

ADVERSITY-OUR STRENGTH


Sometime when I was much younger, when I never knew how to handle challenges, then I see it wrongly as a battle I can't even start fighting and was too scared to approach my problems because I lacked the vision, unknowing that my adversity is something I should face with boldness, audacity and courage. This self-assurance came when Martin Luther King Jr. said that,
 “The greatest place a man can find Himself is a place of challenge and controversy not a place of comfort.”

Our challenges ignite our target and push us to fight harder, so the bigger our problems are, the harder they fall. Much in the same way, the bigger the challenges ahead of us in our present moment, the bigger and more satisfying is the sense of victory having quashed those challenges.
It may sound bizarre to say this, but there is no irony known in the truth of life that sometimes the only way to conquer something is to meet it “hard” and “head-on”. Apply the best strategy within your arsenal; be optimistic, keep the balls rolling because if you definitely stop, the ball will in other way roll back at you. You cannot bring about change without confrontation.

This is why we should take heart in the hardest of adversities, though it’s God that strengthens our weakness when we merely take heart by showing faith enough to simply persist.
We don’t need to enjoy persistence, but just continue in doing it (persist). There is no easier way in persisting than simply stepping forth, one step at a time.
 Most times, issues are over complicated because of our emotions, panic, lack of patience and so on. At this point, I can recall what the book of John chapter 16 vs. 33 said, “in our distress we are to take courage for Jesus has already overcome the world.”

This is not rhetoric, it is the fact of the gospel-related life where we employ strategies of faith to keep persisting on-ward, despite the issues against us, we become ultimately blessed at the appropriate time, I quote Jeffrey R Holland, who said, “ if for a while the harder you try the harder it gets, take heart. So it has been with the best people who ever lived.”
When we are deeply challenged with one thing or the other, it is not actually wise to jump out to the company that won’t fetch or add value to us, because the overall point of enduring adversity is persisting in our way, in holding on with hope in our method of faith, by keeping good company, seating back to adapt, accepting the moment and deal with the stumbling block. Yes! You can. “No man is rich enough to buy back His past.” Oscar Wilder

A lot of great leaders today were sometime helpless in life, but they never gave up, their hope kept them alive which made fight for success themselves. Remember, there is no successful man without a painful story.  “Man is great not because he never falls but rises after so many falls.” Obafemi Awolowo

If we are inspired by heroes and none are greater than Jesus- we would have to agree that we have within us the ability to endure great adversity. We have unfathomable resources of patience tenacity which will simply step one foot after the other. The greater the adversity, the greater we should take heart and keep the fighting sword firm.


Those very people that have inspired us showed us the way. We are not made weaker by adversity; we are strengthened and made wiser because of it.

Thursday, 17 October 2013

How making plans on your bed will help you



couldn't keep this alone. Most of us have challenges on making our daily plans and decisions. (I know you might have seen that movie on the picture) 
Every single day we are bombarded by choices we need to make. Ultimately, our lives are defined by these choices. What should you eat? Should you go to the gym? Should you ask for that promotion? This process can be empowering, or on the flip side it can be stress inducing. You may feel empowered because you took control of your choices and their potential outcomes. On the flip side you may feel anxiety because you don't want to take responsibility for the potential results of your decisions. As a result of your anxiety you allow others to make these decisions for you. These others consist of friends, colleagues, a spouse or significant other. The problem arises because you are the one that these decisions will affect, it is your life not theirs. So, why then would you willingly give that power and control to others? It is OK to seek advice and guidance, just as long as you have the final say and you take responsibility for that. At some point you need to let go of the fear of wrong decisions. You need to be willing to accept the consequences, no matter what the result. Just the act of taking ownership for your life and the course it takes is extremely gratifying and empowering. You will stand taller and more confident when you begin to take the reigns. Small and large, every day you choose the direction your life will lead, choose wisely!
ACTION STEPS
1. Take responsibility for your life
This week take a look at your life and the direction it is leading. Are you controlling the direction or are others? It is so easy to get wrapped up in the process of relying on others. Just for once, take a breath and really examine how engaged you are in your own life. This week take the first step in relying on yourself and your own judgement before asking for help.
2. What fears arise
What do you most fear when relying on your own judgement? What if I make a mistake? What if I fail? What if that is the wrong decision? What if I am supposed to do this instead of that? Well...what if? Peel the layers back and continue to push yourself until the real answer arises. The what “ifs” are typically just an excuse for not trying.
3. One day at a time
Don't try to change your life in one week. Just take one step at a time. Just being more aware will shift your thinking and actions. Commit to making smaller decision first, get comfortable with that and then move on to the larger decisions. You will gain confidence and trust in yourself as you go.




EMPOWER YOUR NOW! The moment matters



Have you ever gone through a difficult time in your life? A period when you felt helpless, lonely and powerless to deal with your circumstances and destiny?  Yes, we all have.
Many of us have experienced the tragedy of abusive childhoods, broken relationships or the loss of a loved one. The easiest thing we normally to do in times like these is to blame other people or circumstances for your life, your state of mind, your finances and career.
It's so easy to blame an abusive parent for the way you are today, or a broken relationship for destroying your ability to love again. But blame is a very disempowering emotion – it takes that Will and power away from you.
It places on others the responsibility for your life, your emotions, yourself. It disempowers you because you cannot change people, circumstances or the moment. The only thing you can change is yourself and the way you react to them.
Some people go through their lives blaming others, living in hopelessness and despair. But, with the exception of child abuse or losing someone you love, no one can do anything to you that you do not give them the permission to do.
By choosing to let things happen the way they do, you are as much to blame for the consequences. It takes a lot of courage to accept that you're the way you are because of the choices you made. But it can be very empowering indeed.
The simple act of taking responsibility for yourself and your life is the first step towards picking up the pieces and moving on. When you shift the onus of change to yourself, the constraints of the past are lifted and you can be anything you choose to be.
True empowerment is not about taking control, passing laws, fighting injustice or changing the world. Empowerment starts from within. It comes from your willingness to be responsible for what is happening to you, your life and your world.
At some point in our lives we all face adversity. Some of us blame others, while others own responsibility and get on with their lives.
The way we deal with our pain and let it transform us makes the difference between winning and losing the battle. When you realise that and act on it, you are truly the master of your own destiny.
How we chose our moments decides how our tomorrow will stand.




Wednesday, 2 October 2013

Some countries in Africa still have nothing to eat; why waste yours


 Malawi: More than a Million Hungry

Malawi: Millions of Malawians Go Hungry


My first post...culled from bbcafrica.com (checking my blog)
A report released on Tuesday (01.10.2013) by the UN food agency says 12 percent of the world's population face chronic hunger. Some 1.5 million Malawians are in need of food aid as the country faces a continued drought.

The report titled 'State of Food Insecurity in the World' said 842 million people did not have enough food for an active and healthy life. Most of them live in underdeveloped countries. Although chronic hunger has declined from 868 million in 2010-2012, the report saw "no progress" in West Africa and only "slow progress" in southern and northern Africa. In Africa "more than one in five people is estimated to be undernourished," the report found.

Malawi's government has said the country does not have enough maize in its silos. Maize is the staple food and the announcement signals a threat to food security in the southeastern African nation of 14 million people.

President Joyce Banda's government is facing a food crisis caused by drought and floods
The scarcity of maize has forced the government to start rationing. The plan is that everyone wanting to buy maize should be able to purhcase at least a bucketful.
While addressing this year's UN General Assembly in New York, Malawi's President Joyce Banda said her country may not be able to attain the Millennium Development Goal (MDG) on hunger and poverty reduction. She cited continuing drought as an impediment to achieving the goal of halving the number of those going hungry.

Skyrocketing prices
In May 2013 the price of a bag of maize was 4,000 Malawian kwacha ($10, 9 euros). The price has since doubled. Panic has gripped residents leading to long queues at most maize markets.
Some vendors are cashing in on the shortage, making life even more difficult for people like Mercy Mzumara, a mother of four. "When we come here to buy maize, I can only afford to buy a pail which can only last for a week," Mercy told George Mhango, DW correspondent in Blantyre.

"Considering the family that I have, whenever I get visitors, things get worse," she added.
Christopher Pensulo, a Blantyre-based maize vendor, said they were not to blame for the current food situation in the country. "We have a business to run, what else can we do? Those who want to buy should do so, and those that cannot, it's up to them," he said. He added that traders too "have families to support and pay bills to pay."